Why (and how) I Set Clear Boundaries With My Child

Setting clear, healthy boundaries in child-parent relationships establishes that you're an adult with your own rights, choices, preferences and capacities. It's an act of self-care. Read on to learn how I struggled by not setting clear boundaries from the start and how I finally changed our lives for the better by setting clear boundaries.

Homecoming

The past one year or perhaps two have been the most difficult yet vital in my journey as a parent. Difficult because I struggled, stumbled and found myself on the edge on more occasions than I can count. Vital because it has been the time when I seriously started contemplating on finding a resolve, a …

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The Glass of Milk

The nutritional value of milk is so well-known that it has been the staple of our diets from times immemorial. My home is no exception. However, getting my family to drink milk willingly has been quite a chore because my daughter and my mother despise it with equal zeal and my father, a tea lover, can’t stop …

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We Need To Talk

This phrase never fails to elicit a strange fear. It's a booster of self-doubt that starts acting the minute these words strike the eardrum. Though I've been at the receiving end of it almost all my life. Remembering the first time I uttered it to my child, I can feel a chill run down my …

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